You know, you can chose to look at your life as a mess or a drama
or,………. just turn around and look in the opposite direction and find something peaceful
I recently came across an article about how people get stuck in ‘victim’ mode even when they are seeking psychological help and counselling. Haven’t we all had a period where we got into the victim/helplessness way of thinking, even just for a split second? :) For many people however, having the problem seems to give them significance and sometimes it defines their life.
I posted the link to the article in some of the forums I belong to and got back a great reply for someone. He included a link to a video of a comedy skit which had me laughing all day whenever I thought of it and have used those two words a few times – it works!!
Here is the link so you can enjoy it too and I’d love to hear what you think. (You may have to copy and paste the link to view it.)
I have been very quiet of late in regards to writing. The reason is that I am in the process of changing from a business offering just straight life coaching to something else. I have done a lot of thinking about what I want and how I want it all to work and so have been working my way through some home study business programmes. Anyway, I have tried to do it all myself and realised that I need to be with people who understand what I am doing and can support me and I can also support them so I even signed up to attend a 3 day seminar in June in an effort to really fine tune my niche and network my butt off – well…………it’s on the Gold Coast and I have rewarded myself by booking the final night at the Sea Temple !!!
In the mean time, the past few weeks I have been able to spend time with the grandchildren:
It’s tiring being a cute baby
A teen who thinks knickers can be a substitute for a beanie
A child who also doesn’t know which part of her body corresponds to which item of clothing
Yes, apples grow on trees – they don’t already come in buckets at the farmers’ markets…….. carrying a handbag, false nails and wearing bangles can make picking a bit tricky too.
I have also watched amazing sunrises
watched a bit of surfing,
other people torturing themselves crawling in the sand
did some yoga and just chilled out in the mornings…..and no, I’m not going to post a pic of my in downward dog position
My purpose for creating a lifestyle working from home or wherever I wish? More of all of the above …………oh yeah – something else……………travel, learning languages and having lots of different experiences ………although I can do without being held up at a traffic accident in the rain in the mountains while I am busting to go to the loo
What’s your ideal lifestyle design? I’d love to hear about it.